U, Me n “Scooty” :)

In your lifetime u gain loads of memories. Memories that u cherish forever. Some ppl become an integral part of your memories. And then on leaving them u have the boxful of memories to remember. Well, I will be leaving my hometown in few days n so at times I do get nostalgic. U live in a city whole your life, suddenly on leaving u remember all the good old days….Hmm…I will miss it all so much…But I m all too eager to begin the new phase of my life.

This blog is dedicated to my best friend n lil sweet sis “Saumya” just to tell u how much u mean to me…Dear I will miss u the most……Dis pic always reminds me of us together 🙂


Being cousins and best friends has given us loads of advantages. From attending school fest to family functions,we have enjoyed it all…Being in the same school was a boon n a bane together…My earliest memory goes back to primary classes when we use to take each other’s copy during exams for preparation n to see what extra has been taught in ur class. But understanding what u write has given me lots of headache always….kamsekam ab to thoda fir acha likhti ho 😀

U r my “8.5th friend”. Kya logic lagaya tha tumne….kabhi puri frnd, kabhi aadhi frnd…bt ab tak to i hope its puri frnd !!! I will miss your humor and the bakwaas we do together…Most of the happy memories we have are of us together on scooty. We go out together n we r bound to be lost. Trying new paths is the best thing we do 🙂

Our first trip on the scooty was such a blunder. Driving on a one-way flyover n thinking tat y is everyone staring at us….logo ke expressions i will never forget…Dono ko raasta nahi pata tha but fir bhi ghumne nikal pade…Remember the time when it was raining and we were returning from ur institute….It was an stormy evening, we were drenched in rains…bt still were trying to find the correct way home…

Going together to school, getting late everyday for assembly n the gossip sessions during the prayers !!!
The lunch time n the choir practices during Quanta were so much fun…n how can i forget being “escorts”….We were for kitchen duty n kitne pastries n sandwiches u stole 😀
but fir uske khaane mein jaada masti aati thi na….
Another time when we were lost was when we were going to buy my books last year….n yaar koi raasta nahi yaad rakh sakte na hum logo…n pure time log khud hi hume raasta bata rahe the…The latest fun on scooty we had was travelling parallel to the railway line…Well, itna to pakka hai ki we can never go with the normal traffic…hamesha kuch gadbad hi hoti hai….Baatein karte rehte hai n we forget to take turns !!!
We have been friends since so long but movie kab dekhi humne saath mein ?? People find it so strange that we have not been to movie together earlier and that we dont hav much pics together…but kya farak padta hai….aise hi humara time paas hota rehta hai….
The long telephone talks and the sms chats….Sitting in the same parlour n still texting it each other…lolz…n the best was when we were returning in the same car and still talking on sms 🙂
But we have had so many best conversations  by just sitting quietly. The strong telepathy we share for thinking of silly excuses is so helpful to save ourselves frm trouble….
The trips to eat “basket chat” n to have cold coffee are innumerable..But each one of those trip is spl in its own way….n yaad hai ek baar parking pe police vaale gaadi lene uthane aa gaye the….fir bhi kya bahana maara tha….n the concert we attended together was also fun…The fun in all the weddings we attend is just awesome…all the dance n dhol is soo much masti !!!
In the last few months we have spent time together so much…Meeting everyday,going out to ganj n the trips to doctor’s clinic…wow…whole bunch of memories…each spl n close to my heart for diff reasons…I know u r getting senti thoda thoda…u r thinking tat wen wil we meet up next….bt dont wry dear…I m nt gng far-off to some alien land…Now u will also join ur job in few months time n den we will come back home in hols n meet n have all the fun again…
We will have the wonderful time on scooty again n will agn sing songs on the top of our voices while driving !!!
Love u loads dear n wish u loads of success 🙂
(P.S- Plz try nt to get too much senti my 8.5th frnd )

Wish I had an “UNDO” option….

Working on a computer, u make a mistake…u quickly press Ctrl+Z…the error is rectified….
I wish my life also had an Undo option. So I could have easily erased so many ppl n mistakes of my life…But tats another one of the “if-onlys” of my life….

U meet a stranger,become good friends n the person betrays u…Dont u feel if only u cud erase tat person from your life…At times u meet ppl in life who talk to u only for dere own good…huh…hypocrites…If I had a magic wand, all these ppl would have disappeared till now. People think that they can go on back-biting and no one will know…Oh plz…No one is so dumb !!!

To err is human. We all make mistakes in life. But at times we make “BLUNDERS”, for which we only are responsible….U know u r wrong but still u keep on repeating same mistakes. People warn u, but na…u are adamant on not listening…n den later u realize wat an idiot u r…Usse acha to hai ki dig a well fr urself n jump into it…

Yaa, I know people are wondering y all of a sudden i m writing all this…Well I had a sudden realization today of how stupid I am. Have been trusting few people who were actually worthless..Better late than never…Thankfully, was saved from a big disaster….May be u have not been true..But no hard feelings…U continue making my life hard n I will continue crossing all hurdles laughing 🙂

Having Undo option in life sounds so good na…But u cant have all good things in life.
Anyways,dere r lot more occasions when u may need “undo” option….U speak something unknowingly and den  realize its after-effects. U fight with ur best frnd for a silly reason n regret it later. U come out of the examination hall n realize u made a silly mistake….These are just few of the incidents bt dere r many more…..

Life wont ever give u “undo” option….So think before doing. We tend to make hasty decisions. n tats when we require “Undo” button…But…u wont ever get it in reality…Well, I can just say that now I will think more before acting n advise u to do the same….


Dreams…best time of sleep…Dream whatever u want. Go places, meet people and do all that u cant do in real life. Dreams inspire us to work for what we want. Dream high and you will surely achieve it. We all have loads of dreams…Dreams of a better future, dream of a secure life….But do dreams actually come true ??

As the time changes so do our dreams. Remember when you were a child you wanted to be superman or batman. Then you grew n wanted to be a pilot or astronaut. Then again dream changes and you become doctor,engineer or manager. Where did the dream vanish ? Being a child was better, atleast we could dream whatever we wanted to…But now even dreams are restricted and become more practical !!!

Everyday I have a new dream. My dream reminds me of what my subconscious wants. I had so many dreams in my life, few were realistic and many were just fantasy. Few became true n rest just disappeared. But that did not stop me from dreaming. At times I wonder of what use are dreams if they cant be achieved. Everyone reaches a point in their life when dreams sound like just another piece of fiction. A fiction thats good to read but not actually possible.

In last 4 years I have realized that some dreams are just not meant to be real. You want something so much that it becomes an obsession n den u realize that ur dream is not good for u. You move on in life n later in life laugh upon the same dream. Thats how life works. One dream is shattered and den u see hundred new dreams that will make ur life more beautiful.

Even if u lose a dream. Dont worry coz you surely have better things in life waiting for you. But too much dreaming is also not good. U just cant always day-dream n do nothing to make it come true. You may dream of owing a villa, but u just sit and do nothing to get it. Thats when dreaming becomes foolish. Work to fulfill all your dreams.

Never stop believing in your dream. U never know when one of your dream becomes a blessing in disguise for u. Dream big and strive to fulfill them. Till you dont dream you wont move ahead in life. No dreams, no desires will make life dull and boring !!!

Certain of Uncertainty !!!

People may find the topic a bit confusing. But for me nowadays “Certainty” is an important word. I had to “Experience Certainty”. But right now I am so certain that my life is going towards uncertainty. Few months back I was certain that after my colg ends I wil have a gala time on my job. But only having a job does not prove that life wil be all happy ever after….

I am sure that some people have already understood the reference to certainty. But for all those who have not yet understood…dont bother…coz i m sure u will certainly not understand it !!!

Well I know i m sounding crazy..But this is what happens when u sit at home for months. People wait for having holidays, just to sit back at home and relax..bt akhir kitna aaram kare koi ??? Ask me, you will be definitely bored of waiting n relaxing.

I am having fun in the extended hols…Who wouldnt like to just sit n keep on eating,watching television, roaming wherever u want, sleeping as much as u can n having no work to do…Sounds like heaven…doesnt it ?? Yet ,excess of anything is bad. And I am tired of “aaram”.

But even thinking of doing work doesnt help.Coz i m too lazy for tat too 🙂
Right now I am envious of all my friends who hav got their joining and are enjoying their jobs !!! I know most of you wont agree with me…Doing job is nt easy. You hav to manage so many things,etc-etc…But still its to better to do something na….

All the people whom i meet now have same questions “beta joining aa gayi tumhari ?”, “kab jaa rahi ho ?”. Ab un sabko kaun samjhaye agar in sawalo ka jawab mere paas hota to fir baat hi kya thi…These questions haunt me wherever I go…But if only i could answer them….I am sure soon i will know the javab to dis sawal…

I am not saying that I dont lyk hols or i dont want them…But if only dere was a way in which i could swap these hols with my joining. If only i could store these holidays and use them later when i would feel too lazy to go to office…lots of if-onlys….So all dis leads me to be certain of uncertainty in my life for few more days…

But kehte hai na “Dont lose hope is the moral of the story”….so keeping my fingers crossed for my early joining !!!!

[P.S. – I know after I join job I wil eagerly wish that i get few more holidays n den ppl around me wil remind me of dis blog…bt fr rite nw i m wishing tat dey end soon….]


Every living being craves for independence. Every individual has his own definition of independence. Independence gives you the feeling to be free….free from boundations…free to do what u want….
Wid Independence Day jst around the corner, how independent do we Indians think v are ??

For some independence may mean to be financially independent. For some freedom is when they buy just two meals a day. For them this is freedom, freedom just to earn enough. For others more financially secure, freedom is when they can buy anything they want. Being financially independent gives us a sense of controlling things.

Independence can be when you are free to chose which career you want to pursue. For a high school student it means to chose a subject of his choice. For a graduate it is freedom to chose the area in which he wants to specialize. For an employee it means to be able to work on his choice of projects. And yet there are so many people who are  forced to work.

Freedom is also when you get chose your own friends and relations. You become free to move away from relations that break your trust. Being socially independent helps you in having your own identity in the society. You are not influenced by sumone to like a person on not. You have ur own views abt people. Not all get so lucky !!

Think of a bird in cage that is never able to fly away. The bird has to live its whole life at the will of its master. Most of us wont be able to survive these kind of boundations.We all enjoy freedom of movement. No one likes to be restricted to one place. You wont like if someone orders you to stay at one place. We can make our choices to live anywhere we want (legally ofcourse !!!). But still we have slaves who can never enjoy such independence….

The independence which we enjoy the most is freedom to speak our mind. Everyone has his own views and beliefs. But we tend to forget that our words may hurt others sometime. Freedom of speech does not mean that we speak ill of others. We all have rights to present our thoughts but we should think twice before speaking. What abt so many ppl who are never allowed to express how they feel ??

These were just few of the many freedoms which we can have. But how many people actually get a chance to live independently ?? Every year we celebrate our Independence Day. But have we ever really thoughts of all those who cannot enjoy even small liberties in life…..

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