Dear Idiots,
You all have been part of my life for as long as I can recall. One who has been crazy enough for 25 years and others for more than 12 years. What is consistent is that each one of you has made my life worth living.
Where should I begin with our story S? I guess that first time we met as small kids in a family function. Or maybe it was school, I don’t remember the exact moment. But, for sure we felt the connection. Studying in the same school all our lives and then being distant cousins has its benefits. From bunking classes to organizing school fest or gossiping over Gol-gappas in weddings. And, our long phone calls since we left home.
We had realized very early that our lives run in parallel even when we are not together. Coming up with exact same excuses to tell others even when we don’t communicate to suffering heart breaks over crushes simultaneously.We have done it all.
Madam, we even went on a girl’s trip soon after my marriage and you still complain that I don’t give you time after getting married. And, I should say the same now. By the way, its time you follow my steps into motherhood too! 😛
Daa, remember our first day of college? You were the last one to board the bus and absolutely no place to sit. Too many seniors crowding in the bus for fresher’s intro. Then, we bonded over those introductory(read ragging) sessions. We are definitely poles apart, novels were a common thread. Remember the three of us sitting in the last corner of the bus and discussing A to Z of our college life. I still treasure that birthday card you people had made for me.
To be honest, you were the one who taught me proper cooking.I was too adamant to admit I don’t know how to even chop onions! Living with you had its own perks, we both grew together while being away from home. Now, when we are continents apart, motherhood binds us again. Living this new phase and having my BFF to discuss the same concerns is a blessing. I cannot wait for our kids to meet and be friends too!
Come back soon, I miss you! 🙂
Well Mr. A, you are not forgotten. I know you are a very private person, but still I am going to talk about you. You have been famous for all the wrong that can happen in college. An arrogant junior, notorious to the core.Yet, you are one of the best things that happened to me. Your schedule makes it impossible to talk much now, still I know you are just a phone call away.
You stood by me like a rock when times were hard. We bonded more over the fact that we are both Scorpions – fierce but loyal friends. It might sound funny, but before every presentation in office, I am reminded of your song ‘Lakhshya ko har hal mein paana hai’.
Thank you for being you!
Love you all,
Disha
This post is written for the #FriendshipBlogTrain hosted by Priyanka and Papri. In this blog train 20 awesome bloggers are sharing their views and stories on friends and friendship. So come and join us to celebrate the most beautiful bonding with us.
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46 thoughts on “Letter to my friends!”
Lifestylesimplify
(23rd June 2021 - 11:55)This is a fantastic post… I hope I get sufficiently motivated! Keep it up. Superb..
Dishki
(28th June 2021 - 11:46)Thank you! 🙂
Varsh
(1st September 2018 - 22:48)Friends are precious. Life doesn’t always let me be around each other but friendship is never dependent on spending hours together only!
Dishki
(2nd September 2018 - 23:45)Very true, friends don’t need to stay together all the time, cause their hearts are well connected.
Sinduja
(20th August 2018 - 12:30)Friends like these make life so much easier and fun. They truly are a rock on which we have the Liberty to lean against when we feel drained out
Dishki
(27th August 2018 - 20:23)Very true Sinduja, friends make life beautiful.
Snigdha
(16th August 2018 - 22:47)That’s very heart-touching letter. Having good friends is really blessing. Lovely post.
Dishki
(17th August 2018 - 00:02)Yes, I have been blessed with wonderful friends. Thanks!
Shilpa Bindlish
(16th August 2018 - 17:38)Sweet anecdotes of Friendship here. Sometimes little gestures count the most.
Dishki
(17th August 2018 - 00:02)Thanks for dropping by!
Parag Solanki
(13th August 2018 - 10:53)Friends are very special.. lovely post.. friends always with us, in good or bad times. life is boring without friends
Dishki
(17th August 2018 - 00:08)Thank you!
And, so very true without friends there is no color to life.
Shweta Chitrode
(10th August 2018 - 22:08)Woow such amazing and touching letter! Friends are really life!!
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Dishki
(19th August 2018 - 18:22)Thank you! 🙂
Papri Ganguly
(10th August 2018 - 12:56)Friends can enhance our life. They can be our strength. Thanks for sharing such amazing post.
Dishki
(13th August 2018 - 09:26)Thanks for dropping by!
everylittlethinghappiness
(9th August 2018 - 22:25)Your story is so beautiful.. we all need that ine friend we can confide in and say anything to ..
Dishki
(10th August 2018 - 00:25)Thank you!
akashpatwari
(8th August 2018 - 00:45)A friend is someone who will always be there for you, in good and hard times. You are very lucky.. Special friendship letter
Dishki
(9th August 2018 - 00:51)Thank you! 🙂
alpanadeo
(7th August 2018 - 20:32)Letter to a friend is always special. It brings back all the wonderful moments we have spent together. It’s so surprising how two strangers share this beautiful bond of friends.
Dishki
(9th August 2018 - 00:53)Very true Alpana. We dont even realize once a stranger is now a close friend.
Directingdreams
(7th August 2018 - 20:23)Friends are indeed special.. loved ur post.. bond of friendship is amazing and ur expression in words is pretty impressive
Keep Writing
Yogita Joshi
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Dishki
(9th August 2018 - 00:54)Thanks a lot!
Sarah
(7th August 2018 - 16:40)Friendship is indeed a very special bond I’m glad you have such two friends I enjoyed reading your story Friends are family we get to choose ..
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this insightful post. Glad I stumbled on your wonderful detailed blogpost.
Keep up the good work.
Sarah
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Dishki
(9th August 2018 - 00:55)Thank you Sarah. Indeed I have been lucky with such friends.
Varsha Gode
(7th August 2018 - 00:42)Special Friend Letter Aww 🙂 I could literally feel the warmth of your bond with your BFF’s through this post.
#FriendshipBlogTrain
Dishki
(7th August 2018 - 12:13)Thanks Varsha! 🙂
uttpalkhot
(6th August 2018 - 13:46)Wow..what a post. I am sure we all will feel a bit nostalgic reading this one. I can see how much you care for your friends and how much they do too. Beautifully written.. 🙂
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Dishki
(6th August 2018 - 19:02)Thank you, they are my backup support, always there for me.
Reetuparna Saha
(6th August 2018 - 00:43)Aww.. That’s such a sweet letter.. And you haven’t missed a single friend!! Loved reading it..
Dishki
(6th August 2018 - 18:57)Glad you liked it!
Hema
(5th August 2018 - 18:00)This is such a heart touching write up. Your single write-up had all sorts of emotions. I loved reading it and thanks for sharing.
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:27)Thank you! 🙂
Jhilmil D Saha
(5th August 2018 - 16:54)Thats a lovely letter to close friends. I am sure your friends will relive those moments again.
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:28)Yes, they were nostalgic after reading the post. 🙂
aritrarelivingdreams
(5th August 2018 - 15:15)True friendship is rare but if u have one such companion u r very lucky. This is a wonderful post. Happy friendship Day!
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:46)Thanks and Happy Friendship day to you too. 🙂
Neha
(5th August 2018 - 14:56)That is such a heartfelt post, it made me nostalgic about my dear gang of friends. I loved reading this.
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:46)Glad you liked it Neha!
ghazala786
(5th August 2018 - 12:09)Lucky that you had such good friends. And yes friendship is one of the best things that happened in my life 😊 Happy with company of my friends.
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:47)Thanks Ghazala, indeed I am lucky to have such friends. 🙂
Priyal
(4th August 2018 - 23:49)That’s really a heart touching letter to your friend, In today’s world its hard to get true friendship , God bless you both 🙂
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:48)Thank you!
Richa Mina
(4th August 2018 - 19:41)thanks for sharing such an amazing friendship story of yours. i’ve such great frinds too who have pulled me through bad patches. so i can understand your post and relate to it perfectly
Dishki
(5th August 2018 - 19:48)Glad to know that your friends are your support system. Thank you for dropping by!