You and I – are poles apart. We are like parallel lines that never meet but stay together till infinity. For I am the chaos & you are the calm. You are the cool breeze & I can be the thunderstorm. You are compassionate & I can be indifferent. You & I are different, yet fate brought us together.
You are the early bird & I am the night owl. You believe in quiet dates & I like the party nights. You love the sunrise and I can watch sunsets for days at end. You plan ahead, but I can be impromptu. You stay quiet and I am a restless soul. You are the yin to my yang!
Remember our first date? The summer heat of Delhi and those CP by lanes! Probably not a good idea for dating. Or our honeymoon trip which was blown away by the cyclone. With us together things tend to take a dangerous turn! Maybe this is God’s way to add adventure to our lives. 🙂
And, how can I forget the couple fights that we have & the tantrums we throw at each other. A bystander would consider us to enemies, but then we know how to manage. We can both be stubborn but our love makes us agree to each other’s choices. Together we have learnt to be more tolerant & accepting. Together we have outgrown our inhibitions and agreed to explore a little more of other’s territory. Like, I have learnt to eat certain green vegetables which otherwise would have never happened. 😉
I might not make breakfast for you every morning or you do not shower me with surprise gifts on all our special dates. I can be a cleanliness maniac & you would leave dirty laundry around the house! Even with all our differences, we fit together perfectly like pieces of puzzle.
For the words may fail you, but I will remember how you took care of me when I had suffered from food infection within months of our marriage. With no family around and away from all my friends in Bangalore, you had held me, stayed awake all night to monitor my health. That’s a different story that next day you also became a victim of same infection. Taking care of each other in that moment, I had realized that we are together for sickness and in health for eternity!
Our’s might not be the perfect fairy tale, but with you it’s different… 🙂
What is your love story? Are you both alike or different? Do share your relationship secrets with us in the comment section.
This post is a part of the Valentine’s Day blog train hosted by Prerna and Vartika, sponsored by ShilpSa, Kalpavriksha farms & Neha from @bloggingmadeeasier.
I am written post by including two prompts – Opposites attract, great minds think alike – what type of couple are you and a picture prompt -“With you it’s different”.
36 thoughts on “The opposite poles that we are!”
Princy Khurana
(4th March 2019 - 02:18)people may have different belief systems, but when love unites them – nothing else matters. well written
Anagha Yatin
(2nd March 2019 - 14:58)You do seem to be poles apart but the challenges have brought you realize that you both are made of same material and are now woven together as a beautiful cloth! Accepting the differences beautifully, I can see that you are trading the path of the matrimony with much vigour and warmth of love.
Ila Varma
(2nd March 2019 - 01:07)beautiful love story crafted well
Maya Bhat
(2nd March 2019 - 00:44)Such a lovely love story ☺️❤️ stay blessed
Dishki
(2nd March 2019 - 00:47)Thanks Maya!
Misha
(2nd March 2019 - 00:12)beautifully written and well-articulated yaa.. stayed glued till the last lines
Shalini
(1st March 2019 - 23:55)Aww you described your love so beautifuly, it doesnt matter how opposite you are, what matters is your love is so strong that it withstands these differences. Beautiful read 🙂
Snehal Sham
(1st March 2019 - 23:06)Fairy tales are always different 🙂 nice post loved reading..
Prerna Wahi
(1st March 2019 - 23:00)Enjoyed reading your post and we are very different too but get along just fine!
eshachaks
(1st March 2019 - 22:26)Aww. . Thats sweet…. God bless you both
Priyal
(1st March 2019 - 22:17)In my case, we both are the opposite, though I m very much talkative and he is not. Dance is my passion whereas it’s not his cup of tea. But then also we are happily living a beautiful life with small small adjustments 🙂
whenpenfellforpaper
(1st March 2019 - 21:52)Life is always like this…. we may not be surprising each other with gifts and all.. yet we are always in love with each other… that’s the essence of marriage. .. quite interesting. .. and mostly I loved the pic… such a cute one
praggattirao
(1st March 2019 - 21:45)Glad that you found your spot of love , and belongingmess despite differences. Loved your spirit to recall and reinforce what all he has done for you and I guess that the secret of your lovely relationship. God bless
jameela
(1st March 2019 - 21:40)Lovely write up, u guys r different in every manner but tigetger connected by love…🤗 Loved d part how Ur husband took care of u in Ur illness staying awake d whole night, gud to ve such loving husband 👍
hellopallavi13
(1st March 2019 - 20:45)I thinking I HV already gvn comments but not able to view
Any ways…really we all are different but when we care for each other nothing matters much …a caring n loving husband is a Kohinoor yaar…u r blessed with it.take care..
Maneet's Blog
(1st March 2019 - 18:18)Loved reading your journey with your better half. When someone tends to you in times of sickness, it is the most affable memory which gets etched in our hearts forever. God bless your relationship.
vijvihaar
(1st March 2019 - 17:44)sweet, cute sharing, caring, understanding & living happily love story… Loved reading it
vidhya thakkar
(1st March 2019 - 12:58)a beautiful post! loved the prompt! opposites couples are interesting!
Shraddha Niphadkar
(1st March 2019 - 08:10)Beautiful writeup. You two are definitely deeply in love with each other. God bless you! 🙂
Ramya
(1st March 2019 - 00:28)Good to know about your story. We are different too.. me vegetarian, my spouse non vegetarian, me outgoing and he the opposite. Stay blessed and happy.
Dr. Surbhi Prapanna
(28th February 2019 - 21:49)Lovely post and I could co relate with it so well. me and my husband share same kinds of equation. indeed opposite attracts and complete a relationship. #Vdayblogtrain
Priyam Sharma
(28th February 2019 - 19:58)Lovely blog. True… opposites attract. Life would have been oppoaite otherwise!
Varsh
(28th February 2019 - 18:28)A feeling of togetherness with the special one in our life is matters the most. It was good reading about how you’re there for each other, in sickness and health. 🙂
MeenalSonal
(28th February 2019 - 16:49)Poles apart but walking in parallel tracks is a great way to walk hand in hand with so much diversity in relation.
Cheers
MeenalSonal
Vartika Gakhar
(28th February 2019 - 16:47)awww that’s a lovely tale of a beautiful couple. Stay blessed.
Anshu Bhojnagarwala
(28th February 2019 - 16:23)Such a sweet post, Neha! Two parallel lines running together closely till the infinity – that’s a super analogy. Stay blessed dear, you are meant to stay together till the infinity, after all opposites attract.
nooranandchawla
(28th February 2019 - 15:30)This is a truly heartfelt post! My husband and I are different in many ways, but also very similar in others. I think that balance makes the marriage fun!
#VDayBlogTrain
My Words My Wisdom
(28th February 2019 - 12:16)so cute!!! being different gives us more scope to be ourselves and to understand the person better.keep understanding and caring, that is life.
lifewithmypenguin
(28th February 2019 - 12:04)It was such a cute post . Being opposite adds spice to life
Aakriti
(28th February 2019 - 10:41)Opposites definitely. I can relate so much to your post because I see muse living that ways. Loved reading it.
vaniskulkarni
(28th February 2019 - 08:38)Short and sweet and very self expressive…ur writeup speaks a million about ur relationship in just few words..nice:)
Mayuri Nidigallu
(28th February 2019 - 08:26)A beautiful description about two people who are so different and yet bound together by love . Loved reading about this imperfectly perfect relationship.
ritwika16
(28th February 2019 - 08:20)Love doesn’t need perfection, its being with each other through thick and thin. Lovely blog.
shivanisalil
(28th February 2019 - 07:45)Beautiful. Revelling in our differences and celebrating them is probably your secret sauce. Written straight from the heart, it’s evident. More power to you.
alpanadeo
(28th February 2019 - 02:04)” Together we have outgrown our inhibitions and agreed to explore a little more of other’s territory.” thats the mantra of a successful relation. Inspire of being opposite poles, if you complement each other then nothing can be more perfect that this.
#vdayblogtrain
hellopallavi13
(28th February 2019 - 01:22)Nice post..really we all are different,god has created human and all are unique in a way..it’s so nice …..being different you both try to cope up with each other ,understand each other and you create a lovely bond together..my best wishes for both of you ❤️